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Through
stories and actions those facing the end of life help us
reflect on the future by grounding us in our history. To our
lives they add richness, perspective and depth. The question
for us is what can we do to support quality care as the end
of life approaches. It’s a topic that few people want to
discuss. Fear, guilt and discomfort make it harder. Among
diverse communities, the conversation is even more difficult
and complex because ideas about end-of-life care and death
are shaped by cultural traditions, values and faith.
While
it may be the hardest conversation we’ll ever have, we owe
it to our loved ones and ourselves to talk about end-of life
care. Comfort, love, respect and dignity should be the
markers of end-of-life care, not pain, suffering and
loneliness.
We
may not know the words, but "palliative care" is
what we all want for our loved ones; it means taking care of
the whole person – body, mind, spirit, heart and soul. It
looks at dying as natural and personal and gives people the
best quality of life possible.
The
good news is there are ways to provide this kind of care for
ourselves and our loved ones – including hospice care,
advance directives and pain management. It’s about finding
ways to live life to the fullest.
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